"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The NON-JUAN Posts: All The Links to Mr. Non-Juan's January 2006 Posts!

Mr. Non-Juan

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Greetings, Non-Juan fans!

Wow, January has come and gone - what a month! I typed a lot of posts during this month, and I know many of you have been searching through the archives trying to find my earlier ones!

So, as a service to you, I'm posting this... well, post... with the urls of all the posts from the month of January! Now you'll no longer have to click through pages of posts to find my Non-Juan posts for this month - they're all right here, from my Newsletter Posts to my Non-Juan Mailbag Thursday posts!

Check it out:

***Non-Juan POST Archive***
01-02-2006: CREATING AN ONLINE PROFILE, NON-JUAN STYLE (Part I) - Learn how your online blog can help advertise your Non-Juan qualites to women you haven't even met!

01-09-2006: CREATING AN ONLINE PROFILE, NON-JUAN STYLE (Part II) - Learn how your online profile can help advertise your Non-Juan qualities to women you haven't even met!

01-16-2006: WHAT TO DO WHEN SHE TALKS ABOUT HER EX-BOYFRIEND - You're out on a date with a girl, and she brings up her ex-boyfriend - a LOT. Learn how to react to it in true Non-Juan fashion!

01-23-2006: DEALING WITH HER RUDE BEHAVIOR - The girl of your dreams is showing you disrespect. Find out what to do when she starts acting like she ain't got no sense!

01-30-2006: ANNOYING THE $#!+ OUT OF HER - Learn the right way to annoy a woman until the thought of being around you will make her puke!




***NON-JUAN Mailbag Thursday Archive***
You've got questions, Mr. Non-Juan has answers!

NON-JUAN MAILBAG for 01-05-2006

NON-JUAN MAILBAG for 01-19-2006

NON-JUAN MAILBAG for 01-26-2006



***NON-JUAN Response to a Post***
A guy at the boards here named aix237 put up a post called "What Do You Do When A Girl Doesn't Know What She Wants." Rather than answer the question on his post, I created my own post and answered it - and, let's just say the response created a firestorm! Check it out:

The NON-JUAN Response to aix237's Post: What Do You Do When A Girl Doesn't Know...

That's all for the month of January. Don't forget to stop by my website - www.nonjuan.blogspot.com - and read the first THREE chapters of my book - "The Non-Juan's Guide... to LOSING the Girl of Your Dreams" - for FREE!!

See ya in February! :cheer:

-Mr. Non-Juan
"Teaching Men to be Good With Women... by Showing How to LOSE Them!"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mr. Non-Juan

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Bump bump bump!
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Non-Juan
Bump bump bump!
Never thought you would have to bump your own thread so discreetly:p

I love your work Non-Juan, the only problem is, I've tested and approved all of your techniques. They all work, for a Don Juan.

You've got to make good with your dues. I want a tried and true technique, where no matter what you do, it just ain't gonna work!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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