"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The New Years Eve Bomb. Fml!

vega1225

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HEY DJs I come to you with yet another epic fail. This one is real bad. See this new years eve the "one" showed up. I don't know what happened man i was super wasted didn't think i would have seen her that night. its been a long time and i always had the hots for her. Of course she didn't know cause i always felt she was way out of my league but reading the things you guys say has shown me there is no such women. If you and her you can get her with the proper technique right?
Well her i am wasted and i come out and pull some **** that i didn't even know i did till the next day because i was so far gone. I came out after a little bit of small talk and begin to explain that i was in love with her and always have! not only to her but to every person in the party. I don't know how or why. I want to give it a shot but i think she might think i'm weird or crazy. I really like this one. She is beautiful and smart. Sweet and just has everything i am looking for. but we really don't know each other. I feel as though she is worth my time. Is there any hope Gents?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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EFFORT

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hey vega1225 go for it and see what happens. Nothing to lose.
 

Super Hero

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Here's something our parents and teachers don't tell us often. "The more you don't Give a $hit, the more they give a $hit".
 
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