"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Nature Of Women

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If you go and ask any attractive woman out there if she has ever had a female friend that backstab her the answer would most likely be yes.

Women often say that the envy male friendship because men do not backstab each other as often and are more loyal and trustworthy to each other.

Why is that?? what is it about the nature of women that makes them backstab one another and distrust each other?

There is a saying: "Men don't trust Women, Women don't trust Women".

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Brian20o2

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Probably because they are emotional and like drama. Since they are emotional they can make rash decisions based on emotions that can change at any time. And they feel the need for drama so somtimes they might go behind somones back to start drama to get attention and an emotional rollercoaster ride. I could go more deeply into this but I really want to go eat my breakfast...
 

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Nope

Wow! :confused:


I hate to bust your bubble there fellow, but guys go through the same shiit with their male friends. Esp good looking guys!!!!!

I have been backstabbed and ****ed-blocked by virtually all my male friends when it comes down to pvssy with the exception of just one. I have one friend (whom I cut off contact with for a while) that would try and talk to every girl I met.

He's not that good looking and so had to rely on lots of game not to mention the fact that he's rich.


There are some things that are peculiar to women, but backstabbing isn't one of them.

Sorry...



SN'
 

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I've noticed men do backstab each other, not because of emotion, but for a specific goal.

This is why, despite the social nature of women, there are still more male CEOs and politicians. Because men are more goal driven, and male emotions are more simple (sex, money, power, fame).
 

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People backstab others because of jealousy too, so people will more often backstab those who they feel are superior to them in some way.

Since women can be way more jealous than men, they probably backstab more than men. Women get jealous of each other's looks, which further increases the backstabbing. That's how i see things anyways.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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