Hi guys. There was a really interesting thread about girls with daddy issues here. The link was " http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/the-most-toxic-damaging-type-of-woman-of-them-all.239396/ ". Does someone know where it went? The thread was a really good reminder for me. There was alot of info about how women with daddy issues behave, how to spot them, character traits, how to deal with them etc. I can't seem to find the same amount on info and so well written anywhere else. Maybe you guys can help me. Thanks.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
"the most toxic type of women" - where did the thread go??
- Thread starter savi0r
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
btownbuck2012
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I would second this motion. That thread was a goldmind of incredibly valuable info.
RedScorpion
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Unfortunately bradd80 requested that all his posts be deleted. You may be able to find it using the way back machine (https://archive.org/web/) or this link gives an idea how that works. http://archive.is/BdgmN
Shame he requested such a thing, but that’s how it goes.
Shame he requested such a thing, but that’s how it goes.
mrgoodstuff
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What was his reasoning? Feminism?
RedScorpion
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Lol I’m not sure tbh. Have just read in a couple threads that he requested it.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/what-happened-to-bradd80’s-guide.248719/
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.