"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The most seductive technique in the World

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I am about to share the most seductive technique in the world. It is so devastatingly effective that this one technique is more important than all others combined, for nothing else will work well without it.

Are you ready? Drumroll........................... Be Legitimately happy with your life!

This is so simple yet so profound! Women want a man with a strong frame, so that he will keep his sh1t together and not become an alky, an abuser, or blow up just because (the possible future) kids used crayon on a wall!! These are very real concerns for a woman because lots of men, even many successful ones, have these issues.

Women like to be happy, and they can't feel that way around someone who is insecure or negative. ANy woman who doesn't like to be happy is someone you should RUN FOR YOUR LIFE from, she is really messed up and you can't fix it.

Look at the eldery. A lot of them don't have much but they know how to be happy. They have their little camper or houseboat and they are always wearing a sh1teating grin! You can learn to have fun, be positive, and a carefree enough to be humble in any situation.

I feel sorry for guys who really think it takes women to be happy, because it takes being happy to get (quality) women.

So the most important technique is to learn how to be happy and have zest for life. If we were all really doing that, then there wouldn't be a single guy on this forum that doesn't have an abundance of women in his life.

When you hear someone talking about how women like jerks, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE! This person is so messed up neither you nor I or all of us are going to fix him. Women like happy men. The so talked about "nice guy" is usually depressed and never has passion for life or exhibits happiness, he only complies in order to try to get something from someone and he doesn't know how to feel comfortable with people, that is why he is so repulsive. It has nothing to do with women liking jerks.

There are also men who are fake happy and this is obvious. They act like the office schmoozer all day long. What I am talking about is being legitimately happy like you just found out you were going to go meet your childhood hero or got a huge promotion or climb the himalayas or whatever you thing is. That's the kind of positive energy that's irresistable.. combine that with a strong frame and a touch of class and that's hard to resist.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm reading some great advice from you lately! I think you're one of the guys here who "gets it".

Keep up the good posts! Although, maybe they'd be better in the tips section.
 

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The_Reaper said:
What is this "happy" you speak of?
I updated the post just a second ago to add more clarity. I am going to make another post with an example of this principle in action.
 

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everywomanshero said:
When you hear someone talking about how women like jerks, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE! This person is so messed up neither you nor I or all of us are going to fix him. Women like happy men. The so talked about "nice guy" is usually depressed and never has passion for life or exhibits happiness, he only complies in order to try to get something from someone and he doesn't know how to feel comfortable with people, that is why he is so repulsive. It has nothing to do with women liking jerks.
Great advice that should be rammed into people's heads!

If women want a jerk, they want drama, they will make your life miserable and it's not worth acting the jerk to supplicate to these people.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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