SeldomSeen
Senior Don Juan
To me being successful with women is sometimes the result of bringing out many different sides of yourself, never letting one side dominate the other and having different dimensions to your persona.
The key is knowing when to don your mask
1) The Comic - making her laugh is essential to keeping her interested. When she's away from you and sort of down she will think of that one person that makes her laugh and feel good - YOU
2) Mr Cool - patient, never begs or ask, laid back, easy to get along with, doesnt throw temper tandrums for petty things
3) The Intellect - this is where you hold deep conversations about life, religion, politics, people etc..this is a good during late night when the two of you are outside alone on a blanket looking at the stars.
4) Mr Optimistic - smiles, has a good attitude, confident, tells about his problems then shrugs his shoulders and says he can deal with it. When she sees this, your confidence shining through she feels good by the fact that you are so positive about yourself
5) The Sarcastic ******* - yes being an ******* a small percentage of time has its benefits: makes smart ass remarks (but sometimes laughs it off and says I'm kidding)
uses neg-hits every now and then, has a I dont give a damn attitude. What this does is breaks a womans total confidence down a bit, giving her a reality check and making her have to reinvest her interest in you.
6) the Friend: and finally we have the friend and you will have to use this at times especially when she's down, stressed, have a illness in the family, during finals week, or bad karma. When these situations arrive you dont want to crack jokes, act like an ******* , say everything is fine, or act too cool...because in this situation she will want someone to talk to and who will listen.
7) The Lover: we all know this one but sometimes you should do different things that just screwing: hallmark cards in the mail every blue moon, flowers, give her a full body massage with no expectation in return, take a candlelight bath or shower together with music, etc
All these things create a memorable character like a great movie character you cant forget;
If you combine all these elements at the right time during a relationship you will have more success with women that just being too much of one and not the other.
The key is knowing when to don your mask
1) The Comic - making her laugh is essential to keeping her interested. When she's away from you and sort of down she will think of that one person that makes her laugh and feel good - YOU
2) Mr Cool - patient, never begs or ask, laid back, easy to get along with, doesnt throw temper tandrums for petty things
3) The Intellect - this is where you hold deep conversations about life, religion, politics, people etc..this is a good during late night when the two of you are outside alone on a blanket looking at the stars.
4) Mr Optimistic - smiles, has a good attitude, confident, tells about his problems then shrugs his shoulders and says he can deal with it. When she sees this, your confidence shining through she feels good by the fact that you are so positive about yourself
5) The Sarcastic ******* - yes being an ******* a small percentage of time has its benefits: makes smart ass remarks (but sometimes laughs it off and says I'm kidding)
uses neg-hits every now and then, has a I dont give a damn attitude. What this does is breaks a womans total confidence down a bit, giving her a reality check and making her have to reinvest her interest in you.
6) the Friend: and finally we have the friend and you will have to use this at times especially when she's down, stressed, have a illness in the family, during finals week, or bad karma. When these situations arrive you dont want to crack jokes, act like an ******* , say everything is fine, or act too cool...because in this situation she will want someone to talk to and who will listen.
7) The Lover: we all know this one but sometimes you should do different things that just screwing: hallmark cards in the mail every blue moon, flowers, give her a full body massage with no expectation in return, take a candlelight bath or shower together with music, etc
All these things create a memorable character like a great movie character you cant forget;
If you combine all these elements at the right time during a relationship you will have more success with women that just being too much of one and not the other.