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The main problem with crowded bars/clubs

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YOU CANNOT TELL WHO IS WITH WHO!


It is very hard to tell sometimes if that cute girl is just friends/cousins with the guys lingering in her area or that guy 5 yards to her left is her boyfriend.

It seems to make me hesistant to approach alot since I don't want some jealous guy getting in my face.

Anyone else have this problem?
 

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Belmar2009 said:
YOU CANNOT TELL WHO IS WITH WHO!


It is very hard to tell sometimes if that cute girl is just friends/cousins with the guys lingering in her area or that guy 5 yards to her left is her boyfriend.

It seems to make me hesistant to approach alot since I don't want some jealous guy getting in my face.

Anyone else have this problem?
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No I don't have this issue and I'll tell you why. I don't sit there and analyze who's sitting by her and who may/may not be her bf at the bar. I go out and have a blast with my buddies, if a see a girl I think is attractive and I'm getting good non verbal signs from her I approach.

I can't tell you how many times I've met girls in bars when they showed up there with at least a few guys in their group. The reality... many of these guys are super chumps, hoping for their chance, while these girls are out on the prowl just like you.

Be more confident, and dive in.




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This topic is gay.

So, you see a cute girl and you don't know if she is with a guy, so you never talk to her at all and you just let her walk away? Do you always do this? Perhaps you can die a virgin and never have to worry about taking any chances.

Good plan!

How about you just ask? Most boyfriends won't pound you into the ground just for talking to his girl, often they feel proud that everyone wants the girl that he has and he likes the attention. I used to do just that. I would go to a club to show off my super hot new girl and watch all the losers try to hit on her and buy her drinks. It was kind of funny to watch guys trying everything and failing miserably.

Then, other hot girls would see what I was doing and take my phone and put their number in it. Were the other hot girls with guys...sure. Didn't make the slightest difference to the girls-- or the girl I was with.
 
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Sounds like an excuse not to approach.

Don't worry - you're not going to get rolled in a club for approaching a girl who is with a guy.

Unless you're going to clubs filled with thugs and hoodlums, it ain't gonna happen.

Stop creating excuses and start approaching.
 
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No the main problem with crowded bars/clubs is that there are too many people at them.
 

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My best friend approached a woman at a coworkers retirement party who simply told him "i'm here with someone else" He leans in and tells her "Thats too bad cuz your coming home with me" The look on her face was priceless.

worst case scenario she IS there with someone else.
 
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