"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The little things matter...

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Anyway these are pretty understated here, but girls will value a guy who has a slight ****iness attitude. It shows he still has some self-respect. To reiterate a few things..

The little things matter, keep the anticipation -

1) cut phone calls short, even if it may be 1 or 2 mins, talk about something she loves to talk about, then tell her "look i gtg, call me." or "ill talk to you later."
1a) each time she calls you back, sound excited to hear from her and speak enthusiastically...rinse and repeat 1 - 1a.

2) even if she doesnt want to hang up and keep saying bye, YOU hang up after the first bye.

3) She wants the date to last longer or spend more time with you, end the date early.

4) Each time you see her, notch up kino more...be more playful, ticklish..etc.

5) You dont have to pick up the phone every time...hell let it ring 4 times, pick up or, Let her leave a voicemail if she wishes.

6) bring out the ****y side, tease her.

7) remember the little things, such as her favorite food/movies/ songs...etc.

8) There's nothing more attractive than someone who is genuinely interested in you...
i read somewhere (here?) that the girl's supposed to speak 70% of the time and guy speaks 30%

9) as always be a challenge. In reality no one values things they dont have to work hard on, its just taken for granted.

Well this is a never ending list, but that's all i remember...later folks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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