"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Law of Attraction

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For those you who don't know what the law is, I'd recommend you watching the documentary called "The Secret", and I've heard they have a book on it.

The first 20 minutes can be found on YouTube here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_b1GKGWJbE8

I torrented it and watched the whole documentary.

I don't what to say about it though. Does it work? I've always used my imagination with a bunch of hot women on me and I attach positive emotions to reinforce it. I even take 15 minutes of my time and reenact scenarios in my head...But it seems that it doesn't work. :-(

I don't want to give up on this concept completely. I want to read some of you all's experience with this law.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I believe in the concept of the "secret"
because this are Ideas that have existed since the beginning of times. At present, people use it commercially within the "new age" stuff.

its no secret though, its will power, and harnessing all your mental energy, your will, your desire into things that you really want. The more you focus on something you want to be, have or do, the more "fuel" you are putting inside your body, the more you are channeling your energy, and if you do it long enough, your mind and body will begin to seek outside evidence, and situations that will confirm those images in your mind, and it will do what it takes to make it happen, as long as you are using your mental powers

you build your reality, you are the master of your own ship, as you think you will become, think and grow rich, ask and you shall receive...

this are ideas that work, if you have the FAITH, CONFIDENCE, ROCK SOLID BELIEF that they work. if you give up because you are not getting what you want, that means you are not even ready mentally to receive that which you want, you have no determination, no real desire no persistence

real desire, the secret, means " I am going to be do or get this thing I want, and I will do whatever it takes to make it happen, even if it takes the reminder of my life, I will not give up, I rather die trying than giving up."

what could be the ultimate outcome for someone who has such determination in life??????? who is never going to give up no matter how many times he is defeated????? no matter if he gets rejected 10000 times, he is willing to keep trying until he meets the perfect "girl?" or whatever.

I have used this concepts in every area of my life, my grades, (I am a straight A student, my ability to approach and get numbers, my current girlfriend has all the qualities Iwanted in my relationship, my friends, my job... I imagined it, I said that is what I wanted, and thats what I have gotten.

a week ago I decided I wanted to get a new job, I didnt know how I was going to get it, I made the decision I wanted it, and started concentrating on it.... well two days ago a friend texted me after many years, saying that there is a job opening as a case manager in my field, and tomorrow I have a job interview.

coincidence? I think not.

It was only after I harnessed my mental energy into affirming, visualizing, and talking to myself about approaching women and getting numbers that I was able to start doing it. without it I would have never been able to approach anyone.
 

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I believe in the concept of the "secret"
because these are Ideas that have existed since the beginning of times. At present, people use it commercially within the "new age" stuff.

its no secret though, its will power, and harnessing all your mental energy, your will, your desire into things that you really want. The more you focus on something you want to be, have or do, the more "fuel" you are putting inside your body, the more you are channeling your energy, and if you do it long enough, your mind and body will begin to seek outside evidence, and situations that will confirm those images in your mind, and it will do what it takes to make it happen, as long as you are using your mental powers

you build your reality, you are the master of your own ship, as you think you will become, think and grow rich, ask and you shall receive...

this are ideas that work, if you have the FAITH, CONFIDENCE, ROCK SOLID BELIEF that they work. if you give up because you are not getting what you want, that means you are not even ready mentally to receive that which you want, you have no determination, no real desire no persistence

real desire, the secret, means " I am going to be do or get this thing I want, and I will do whatever it takes to make it happen, even if it takes the reminder of my life, I will not give up, I rather die trying than giving up."

what could be the ultimate outcome for someone who has such determination in life??????? who is never going to give up no matter how many times he is defeated????? no matter if he gets rejected 10000 times, he is willing to keep trying until he meets the perfect "girl?" or whatever.

I have used this concepts in every area of my life, my grades, (I am a straight A student, my ability to approach and get numbers, my current girlfriend has all the qualities Iwanted in my relationship, my friends, my job... I imagined it, I said that is what I wanted, and thats what I have gotten.

a week ago I decided I wanted to get a new job, I didnt know how I was going to get it, I made the decision I wanted it, and started concentrating on it.... well two days ago a friend texted me after many years, saying that there is a job opening as a case manager in my field, and tomorrow I have a job interview.

coincidence? I think not.

It was only after I harnessed my mental energy into affirming, visualizing, and talking to myself about approaching women and getting numbers that I was able to start doing it. without it I would have never been able to approach anyone.
 

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The only thing that positive reinforcement will do for you is giving you a confident outlook, and therefore (hopefully) a confident physical presence. This helps game tremendously, but only if you truly believe it'll work.

If you sit there and pine "I want this to happen, PLEASE let this work" your body language will show it.
Likewise, if you're "in state" and you're just like "Bro, I got this. No problems" then you'll have a better chance of coming off as a more confident person.

There are no rays coming out of your head, just a sense of confidence to other people.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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pipe007 said:
I believe in the concept of the "secret"
because these are Ideas that have existed since the beginning of times. At present, people use it commercially within the "new age" stuff.

its no secret though, its will power, and harnessing all your mental energy, your will, your desire into things that you really want. The more you focus on something you want to be, have or do, the more "fuel" you are putting inside your body, the more you are channeling your energy, and if you do it long enough, your mind and body will begin to seek outside evidence, and situations that will confirm those images in your mind, and it will do what it takes to make it happen, as long as you are using your mental powers

you build your reality, you are the master of your own ship, as you think you will become, think and grow rich, ask and you shall receive...

this are ideas that work, if you have the FAITH, CONFIDENCE, ROCK SOLID BELIEF that they work. if you give up because you are not getting what you want, that means you are not even ready mentally to receive that which you want, you have no determination, no real desire no persistence

real desire, the secret, means " I am going to be do or get this thing I want, and I will do whatever it takes to make it happen, even if it takes the reminder of my life, I will not give up, I rather die trying than giving up."

what could be the ultimate outcome for someone who has such determination in life??????? who is never going to give up no matter how many times he is defeated????? no matter if he gets rejected 10000 times, he is willing to keep trying until he meets the perfect "girl?" or whatever.

I have used this concepts in every area of my life, my grades, (I am a straight A student, my ability to approach and get numbers, my current girlfriend has all the qualities Iwanted in my relationship, my friends, my job... I imagined it, I said that is what I wanted, and thats what I have gotten.

a week ago I decided I wanted to get a new job, I didnt know how I was going to get it, I made the decision I wanted it, and started concentrating on it.... well two days ago a friend texted me after many years, saying that there is a job opening as a case manager in my field, and tomorrow I have a job interview.

coincidence? I think not.

It was only after I harnessed my mental energy into affirming, visualizing, and talking to myself about approaching women and getting numbers that I was able to start doing it. without it I would have never been able to approach anyone.

Excellent read. I'm definitely gonna give the law of attraction another try. :) Thanks for giving me hope again.
 

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pipe007 said:
I believe in the concept of the "secret"
because these are Ideas that have existed since the beginning of times. At present, people use it commercially within the "new age" stuff.

its no secret though, its will power, and harnessing all your mental energy, your will, your desire into things that you really want. The more you focus on something you want to be, have or do, the more "fuel" you are putting inside your body, the more you are channeling your energy, and if you do it long enough, your mind and body will begin to seek outside evidence, and situations that will confirm those images in your mind, and it will do what it takes to make it happen, as long as you are using your mental powers

you build your reality, you are the master of your own ship, as you think you will become, think and grow rich, ask and you shall receive...

this are ideas that work, if you have the FAITH, CONFIDENCE, ROCK SOLID BELIEF that they work. if you give up because you are not getting what you want, that means you are not even ready mentally to receive that which you want, you have no determination, no real desire no persistence

real desire, the secret, means " I am going to be do or get this thing I want, and I will do whatever it takes to make it happen, even if it takes the reminder of my life, I will not give up, I rather die trying than giving up."

what could be the ultimate outcome for someone who has such determination in life??????? who is never going to give up no matter how many times he is defeated????? no matter if he gets rejected 10000 times, he is willing to keep trying until he meets the perfect "girl?" or whatever.

I have used this concepts in every area of my life, my grades, (I am a straight A student, my ability to approach and get numbers, my current girlfriend has all the qualities Iwanted in my relationship, my friends, my job... I imagined it, I said that is what I wanted, and thats what I have gotten.

a week ago I decided I wanted to get a new job, I didnt know how I was going to get it, I made the decision I wanted it, and started concentrating on it.... well two days ago a friend texted me after many years, saying that there is a job opening as a case manager in my field, and tomorrow I have a job interview.

coincidence? I think not.

It was only after I harnessed my mental energy into affirming, visualizing, and talking to myself about approaching women and getting numbers that I was able to start doing it. without it I would have never been able to approach anyone.

Excellent read. I'm definitely gonna give the law of attraction another try. :) Thanks for giving me hope again.
 
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