"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The JustMan's Path from Virgin to Master DJ/PUA Approach Journal/Lay Report

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WTF Justman, did I miss something, where are all the k-closes and f-closes here? All I see is a bunch of approaches - what's missing here? Did you actually k-close or f-close anyone, or even get a date or relationship with anyone here?

Sounds like everyone's flaking on you and your not getting any action. Are you just socialising or something? Get back out and and make sure you report some closes to us.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Congrads man. Your's was the most entertaining journal i have read so far. I Look forward to seeing comeback as a teacher.
 
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