The inexperienced 20 something girl.

[JH6]

Ok,

I have found the rare 20 something girl.

So i'm going on dates with this very very cute 20 year old girl. We share alot of common interests, we hang out, we go drinking, dinner, whatever.

Now, with previous girls, I have always obeyed the leykis 3 strike rule. With this girl, i'm clearly not doing this. I have no desire to next her.

So, after date number four seriously nothing has happened. This is weird for me. I kissed her on the cheek when I seen her the other day, I have no idea why I did this.

After date number four, she seriously bolted out of my car and was like 'hey thanks alot for taking me, i had a great time, i'll talk to you soon'.

And I sat there like the guy in that harley davidson commercial who is shocked that he didn't get anything.

We had a long talk about previous relationships and she hasn't had any serious boyfriend pretty much ever. She is from a little country town, who moved to the big city to go to school.

I wouldn't put it past her having her V card, but I don't think that she does.

Ok so tomorrow is date number five. Just an open ended dinner. Her idea and she offered to pay (what a breath of fresh air).

What do i do to judge her interest level?
Should I just make a move and not think about it?

Good greif, this is strange..

 

[The Nice Guy is Gone]

If you think you should, make the move when you think it. That is said time and time again on this board, and I've learned that it is one of the best tips ever, because:

If you begin to think about it, you will start thinking about the negatives rather than the positives. If you make the move as soon as you think about it, and she rejects your move, just make it seem as though nothing happened--because, if she rejects your move, nothing happened anyway, and continue with the date.

If you make the move as soon as you think about it, and she accepts it, take it from there.

As far as judging her interest level, you should know that by now--do a search. I would've done it for you, but I didn't realize I would get this far into this post. Only you can judge how much you think her interest level is. Only she knows how high her interest level is.

 

[Hunterchilla]

check out my thread of UNSEXUAL GIRL
its almost exactly like this

shes extremely innocent/inexperienced but I randomely kissed her as we were spooning, and ever since then weve been making out.

I think its important before the kiss to initiate alot of kino, and when her head physically is really close to your just go in for a kiss. If she likes u shes gonna make out with you, if she deosnt shell back her head away obviously

anyway check out my thread its very similar trust me.

u can maybe learn something from my encountars.


for me right its been 4 dates, for the last 2 dates weve been making out and spooning, last date she was sitting on my lap making out with me while i was playing with her ass. And the next date I we already planned on having sex

so good luck the girl is not gonna
initiate you have to.


ALSO what the guy above me said, dont think about it. Just do it!!

Actually im kinda narcistic, and i have really high self esteem naturally, so when i go in to kiss her, im saying to my self Man shes lucky shes making out with such a hot guy.
so if u have that state of mind it can help as well

but just keep doing things, dont let **** go stagnate, cuz then nothing will happen.

 

[godjwood]

yea i fvckin stagnated and got nowhere