"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The inability to make joke or funny conversation with certain women regardless interest

sosousage

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Althrough i mean online case, its probably like that offline too with some

i gave this gal superlike, she texted me first (!) i replied she didnt read my description, and now we chit chat about some irrelevant chit, and i cant make any sensible joke about the stuff she says, cant tease her, it would be just too unfitting to the conversation


so clearly shes interested but texting with her is so tough, i remember such cases before, sometimes both sides are interested but the talk goes so ****ty regardless effort that one or second person ghosts (no one ghosted yet now and she replies immedietely (i dont) but i can see it wont work haha)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Doctor Europeo

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Sounds like too much trouble and not worth it. Ask her out already. Anything other than a yes or counteroffer soft next.
 
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