"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Importance Of The Phonecall

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Getting a complete stranger to hand you personal information in a mere few moments is quite an accomplishment in itself. There are several methods of digit extractions, some are better than others.

1) INFIELD-this is where you entice someone face to face and they part with their digits within a few minutes.

2) VIRTUAL SOCIAL NET-WORKING-some rely on dating sites, email enticements or chats/Instant messages to gain approval to call them.

3) CSI-this method has creepy wuss written all over it. It's basically where one tries to get a number without their permission by searching last names. Some use the internet, back in the day we used phone books, others use some sort of tactic like dialing your own number from her cell, asking their co-workers, etc.

PURPOSE OF THE CALL: A) if you got her number through face to face communications you would call to tease 'em, set up the specifics, build more comfort, initiate a sexual state.

B) Virtual communications-the purpose of the call is to decrease the virtual buffer between you. It requires a bit more confidence when transitioning to the phone from the net. If you enticed them online it's time to transition to real life.

C) NO PERMISSION GIVEN METHOD-this is difficult to pull off, it's like calling numbers at random from the phone book and trying to get a date. It is possible.....depending on the female and how extreamly smooth you are.....but rare. You could make up a story....."hey I am a friend of Lori's and she told me you were single and kinda cute.............so are you". It just screams insecurity and say one wrong word you open up the creepy guy scenario.

TEXTING-a lot of females DO NOT answer their phones from callers they don't recognize. To increase your odds of getting an actual person you might want to try sending a text first. Something along the lines of "hey brat....you screening your calls....it's me....pickup".......then call.

Don't make the mistake of engaging in texting back & forth........as this maintains that virtual buffer. Your goal is to engage them verbally to associate your voice with an anchor. Text messages have less appeal without the enticing voice behind it!.

CALLING IS NOT: leaving creepy messages, hanging up, voicing your anger, asking if they live alone, engaging in mindless chatter, etc. She gave you her number, now it's up to you to get to the next level. SEX, first dates, seduction all begin with simple phone call.....choose your words wisely.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Phone numbers are overrated now... women give their number to many many people every week... so here is a new rule for you.. WOMEN ONLY F TH MEN THEY CALL NOT THE MEN WHO CALL THEM!! ... SO YOU NEED TO FOCUS ON GETTER HER TO CALL YOU.. THEN YOU ARE IN !!!!
 

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well women dont normally call men right off the bat......some do but not sure its an indication that if a chics calls me first its indicative of a sure thing.

Hot women get men calling them all the time.........so to remember all the men's numbers would be too much of an effort. Its like having pizza delivered vrs picking one up.

Now if we CSI the percentage likelyhood of a chic that initiates the very first call vrs guys calling her first for the purpose of sex (aside from seduction tactics that men do) we might see a slight increase. A ton of gals still play the old fashioned card pertaining to the first phone call......even adventerous females. Sure calling first does infact tilt the DHV in her favor but you can regain DHV points quickly using negs, C & F, etc.

REALISTICALLY----------

I am an advocate of "MAKING IT HAPPEN" & taking control of my own success in my time window.....rather than to wait for her to call on her time table.
I quickly even the control ratio with some clever banter, sort of like active dis-interest. Lots of men spark the interest and then wait for her to call (regardless if they are doing other stuff)........spewing that Mack/alpha male mentality is time consuming.

DON'T WAIT FOR THEM TO RESPOND, CALL, DISPLAY IOI's.........LEAD THEM WHERE THEY WANT TO GO. CARVE YOUR OWN DESTINY.........saves time.
 
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