"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The importance of a good wingman

j-flex

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i have always wanted to be a ladies man, but i always had trouble approaching, my afc friends didnt help either.

then i found one friend had the same dream as me (being a player), which i quickly lazed him with some game and rules we must abide by.

we now have gone to like 4 parties and approached more than 15 girls in the past 2 weeks, when i dont want to approach because of fear of rejection, he pushes me to do so, same with him.

we go to parties where we dont know anyone, and we push our boundaries out.

i encourage you to get a GOOD wingman, it makes things way easier, boost your confidence, makes you look less creepy and will make you more successfull.

by the way never get a wingman who is an AFC, he will hate on you, scare girls off etc.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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