"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The illusive obvious to the average folk

Stuntmann

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The following statement, which we know is true, appears to most people as entirely out there, not true, nuts, useless, and other things related to negative thinking.


"I live in my own reality, and I'm loving it here."


You would be surprised just how many people believe that to be bull sh1t. Most women, 92% of all men.


Yet, all successful people, DJs, pickup artist, millionaires, celebrities, and even your boss, know that it can't be any more true that what it is. Living in your own reality. It's the missing ingredient between boredom and live full of happiness and excitement.


Other name for this is taking absolute control over your life.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJVladdy

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Absolutely... but its a gradual process and you will not achieve it overnight. I'm about half way there, it takes time
 

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The homeless crackhead babbling to himself on the street corner lives in his own reality as well.
 
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