"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay guys, I believe that the number one reason behind confidence is the fact taht you're proud of the way you look.

The prospect of this post is to post a link to your picture, and other people will give you feedback on what's good, and what you can improve on.

Criteria can be anything like clothing, hair, accessories, facial hair, teeth, body shape, and other easily correctable problems.

I think I look pretty good, but I'll post my picture anyway to get this started:

Mean muggin european

Me before sum dance

DONT BE SHY!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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myspace.com/jcashdakid

All my good online pics are up their
 
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Hey man, you look like a cool guy (no homo). I can't tell you how good you look but you prolly dont have too much problem findin the ladies or any kinda friends
 
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In regards to the first guy - your huge. How tall are you?

I would suggest putting on a bit of weight - maybe bulk? To me you would look more even.

I don't like the jacket, but thats just me. I'm not a leather fan at this age but it does sort of suit you.

I guess I'm more of a preppy kind of guy (or whatever you kids in hs in the states call it).

Otherwise have you ever tried a really low cut hair style? Like almost shaven?

And I would ditch the facial hair.

Just my two cents ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This isn't a discussion, we got a picture thread in AE for stuff like this.
 
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