"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

The HB9-10 nonsense.

Thread starter Naughty Ninja
Start date Apr 4, 2013

Zerro

Master Don Juan

Apr 5, 2013

goodfoot said:
One person's 10 is another person's 8. The day I realized that is the day I stopped worrying about looks so much.

I believe that there is no universal standard for 10, it's just a 9 who has something extra that appeals to you. We could spend all day looking at a lineup of women and would never reach a consensus on which are 8s, 9s, and 10s.

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.