jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Men are often told not to listen to women's advice, there is a general consensus to not accept advice from women.
“Be a nice guy,” “Look how well he treats his girlfriend, you should too.”
These will be some things you will hear single women say. With that said, let's get into relationships.
A friend of mine had a girlfriend who kept praising her fit, gym-going friends in the same circle. She even bought his BF a year Long gym membership. He barely went. But that wasn't rando, it was an advice: I like men who take care of themselves, and I'm choosing you because you have other qualities too, but you need to go to the gym, so I can be attracted to you.
In this scenario, the man is not accepting the advice, or better, her suggestion to be a better man, but rather chose to not do it, because that would be pleasing her.
Relationships, also have, direct ones:
“Those shoes make you look childish. Look at those are more for a man"
“You should work on your oral hygiene"
“You're distracted lately, please get calendar events and get more organized.”
So basically a woman in a relationship is suggesting to you things you can do to improve.
There are also other types of suggestions:
Let's say you found out a new passion, you commit. It can be work, sports, goals, and you may hear:
“You're always busy, We don't spend enough time together." or "You're always at themvolleyclub, and you're not focusing on family".
Even when you're doing well, there'll be times when she does like that, and it might be that you will listen to her, and sometimes take her for a breakfast, or any other idea that passes to your mind to spend time together, but she will still be "unhappy" about this situation.
It happened to my sister for example, in her relationship with her bf, because they "always did activities with friends" and "never did activities as a couple".
The moral of the story is that we should take advice from women, but above all, understand when they're giving us advice or a suggestion. So the general consensus about not taking advice from women might be right, but what about women, like your girlfriend or wife, with whom you're intimate? You should take advice from them because they give you suggestions to make you more attractive and improve your life. Give examples of how your woman or women in the past have given you advice that has improved you and made you a better man
“Be a nice guy,” “Look how well he treats his girlfriend, you should too.”
These will be some things you will hear single women say. With that said, let's get into relationships.
A friend of mine had a girlfriend who kept praising her fit, gym-going friends in the same circle. She even bought his BF a year Long gym membership. He barely went. But that wasn't rando, it was an advice: I like men who take care of themselves, and I'm choosing you because you have other qualities too, but you need to go to the gym, so I can be attracted to you.
In this scenario, the man is not accepting the advice, or better, her suggestion to be a better man, but rather chose to not do it, because that would be pleasing her.
Relationships, also have, direct ones:
“Those shoes make you look childish. Look at those are more for a man"
“You should work on your oral hygiene"
“You're distracted lately, please get calendar events and get more organized.”
So basically a woman in a relationship is suggesting to you things you can do to improve.
There are also other types of suggestions:
Let's say you found out a new passion, you commit. It can be work, sports, goals, and you may hear:
“You're always busy, We don't spend enough time together." or "You're always at themvolleyclub, and you're not focusing on family".
Even when you're doing well, there'll be times when she does like that, and it might be that you will listen to her, and sometimes take her for a breakfast, or any other idea that passes to your mind to spend time together, but she will still be "unhappy" about this situation.
It happened to my sister for example, in her relationship with her bf, because they "always did activities with friends" and "never did activities as a couple".
The moral of the story is that we should take advice from women, but above all, understand when they're giving us advice or a suggestion. So the general consensus about not taking advice from women might be right, but what about women, like your girlfriend or wife, with whom you're intimate? You should take advice from them because they give you suggestions to make you more attractive and improve your life. Give examples of how your woman or women in the past have given you advice that has improved you and made you a better man
