Mach
New Member
Ill tell you how I got with my girl, cause i was in the same boat as many people on this message board.
So in the beginning, we seemed to be hitting it off pretty well. HOWEVER, when I suggested to her that we have a relationship she just said no. Actually it was more like
Me: ...Funny we should be on this topic, cause i was thinking of asking you out.
Her: Don't do that.
Being a little embarrassed and frankly quite frustrated, the next little while consisted of the following course of action. You know what I did guys? Its what you all think can never, ever,. . . .EVER lead to a relationship. I became her friend. Yes that's correct gentlemen, I deliberately put myself in "the friendship zone." Pretty dumb huh? HELL NO! In fact, we eventually got to be very close friends. Then I did this. I treated her like a friend. I hit on other girls in front of her. I talked about other girls with her. Eventually, it was enough so that when we started hitting it off again, she was the one who said "whats going on between us?" and all that. We have now been together for over four months, and although there is one minute problem in our relationship, it is not relevant to this topic.
So what im trying to say is just cause a girl says she doesnt want a relationship right away, doesnt mean that she wont want to get with you at all.
So in the beginning, we seemed to be hitting it off pretty well. HOWEVER, when I suggested to her that we have a relationship she just said no. Actually it was more like
Me: ...Funny we should be on this topic, cause i was thinking of asking you out.
Her: Don't do that.
Being a little embarrassed and frankly quite frustrated, the next little while consisted of the following course of action. You know what I did guys? Its what you all think can never, ever,. . . .EVER lead to a relationship. I became her friend. Yes that's correct gentlemen, I deliberately put myself in "the friendship zone." Pretty dumb huh? HELL NO! In fact, we eventually got to be very close friends. Then I did this. I treated her like a friend. I hit on other girls in front of her. I talked about other girls with her. Eventually, it was enough so that when we started hitting it off again, she was the one who said "whats going on between us?" and all that. We have now been together for over four months, and although there is one minute problem in our relationship, it is not relevant to this topic.
So what im trying to say is just cause a girl says she doesnt want a relationship right away, doesnt mean that she wont want to get with you at all.
