"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The First Step

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hudpes said:
Women are in their essence cowards, they don't expose themselves, are indirect, hiding behind infinite excuses and lying is her second nature, they react. Men act, roar as they go into battle, and are expected, in order to be regarded as a suitable mate, to be responsible, bold, and to provide sense of security. A man that doesn't stand up for himself, will unlikely stand up for others, a man that doesn't make a step will likely stand still in his bubble of security and grind the same worthless job and live in the same mediocre apartment. Making the first step is masculine behavior, and women expect it and find it attractive. A woman making the first step is seen as sexually aggressive and a man wonders if she's doing this all the time, having ****ed half the town and also feels less of a man, because she assumed his role and he's empty handed and can just say yes, of course I'll have sex with you. But this won't really work and it happens very seldom.
what the woman wants is more important than what the man wants
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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