"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The first step is CONFIDENCE

Sniper2k

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Yeah, I know we've heard them all MILLIONS of times. "CONFIDENCE is key!" "You've got to have CONFIDENCE!" The most important key is CONFIDENCEblah blah blah. So tell me why do we know what the answer is but still haven't learned anything? *Sigh* if only there was a confidence pill we could take, a fvcking confidence button we could press that would make us unstoppable. Unfortunately, we all live in a little something I like to call reality, though most of us deny it for themselves.

The truth is confidence IS the key to it ALL. When we are confident in ourselves this is what occurs:

We become THE MAN.
We are unaffected by pain, suffering, rejection, ridicule, etc.
We don't give a **** about what people say, think, or do to us.
We are 100% sure we can achieve what we want.
We become an unstoppable force able to achieve anything.
We become much more attractive to females.
We become THE FVCKING MAN.
and so on...

What is confidence? Its believing in yourself NO MATTER WHAT the situation, plain and simple.

Why are women attracted to confidence? So many reasons. It makes you more desirable. When you are confident YOU are in CONTROL. All a chick wants to do is have control and use you, make you her boytoy/slave to boost up her fragile ego, then tell all her girlfriends how she got you p*ssy whupped, use you to get money/gifts/someone to lay her problems on/sex/etc. When you're confident, she has to work fvcking hard to make you submit, but your confidence doesn't allow that. So then SHE becomes the one who submits to YOU. A confident man brings excitement in her life that she craves for the confident man is not predictable and does whatever the fvck he wants. Also, the confident man does not NEED the chick to be happy. Once a chick knows you NEED her, she has the power, she knows your weakness, she knows what to do to get what she wants out of you. Its all about CONTROL, she wants to be able to CONTROL you and make you do anything for her. However, the confident man is NEVER controled by ANYONE but HIMSELF. The chick will be ALL OVER you trying to control you. As long as you remain confident in yourself, she will ALWAYS be interested in you. And even if she doesn't, it DOESN'T MATTER because you're always gonna be confident in yourself.

How to get confidence? Confidence comes from within, by realizing your selfworth, your value. You may think that you're an absolute loser all because you don't have money, a car, friends, you still live with your parents, etc. Those things don't make you confident. You have to just BE it, you cannot depend on anything or anyone to make you feel confident, you got to do it for yourself.

My friends, confidence is the key to unlocking your full potential. It's about time we discover it so we can discover how far we can go in our lives.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Sniper2k We become THE MAN.
We are unaffected by pain, suffering, rejection, ridicule, etc.
We don't give a **** about what people say, think, or do to us.
We are 100% sure we can achieve what we want.
We become an unstoppable force able to achieve anything.
We become much more attractive to females.
We become THE FVCKING MAN.
and so on...
Gunshot wound ? What gunshot wound ?
I thought that was a mosquito bite !
Excuse me for a second while I run through this brick wall....
 

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That's why there's bulletproof vests, just ask for a pair from 50Cent. :D
 

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Good post! I found it very inspirational reading. So much so that I went to bed thinking about it and believe that it has inspired me to think up the perfect strategy for getting women to fall in love and worship me.

I'm going to need some time to try it out and practise it, but if it works as well as I expect it to, I'll be posting the ultimate tip on this board in the coming months. :)
 
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