Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The febuary advantage

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Does anyone find that febuary is a particuarlly good month to pickup women? I know some of you will say "Well PRMoon I find EVERY month is a good month for me to pick up women" and thats fine for you.
I'm just asking in a round about way do you find that there's any psychological or positional advantage you've seen that just comes with it just being the month of febuary?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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now that i think about it, i have to admit that girls seem to have become more tender these days... i mean, they're more lovin' and keep touchin' me... well, hopefully it's just a personality change, not related to february:)
 

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Yes, I noticed this too. Around V-day chicks get all sentimental especially if they are lonely. Definitely a good time to make a move if the opportunity is there.

Also, old flames tend to pop out of the woodwork. In the last several weeks alone I got calls from 3 women I have not seen or talked to in months.
 

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hmmmmmm might be because of vday , seems like girls are warming up to me too, lol i get stared at so much at univeristy its become uncomfortable, i hope it aint beacuse of vday. ill se how it goes after vday to come to a conclusion about whats reall up.hmmm
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Vday hot night

If you're single, Vday evening is one of the best pickup nights. Lots of lonely gals looking for someone to be close to. Any non-AFC (hell, even some eye-friendly AFCs) can get lots of action.
 

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Yip Yip....

Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
Maybe Valentines day?

Agreed... One of the things that some girls dred is to NOT be asked to be some guys Valentines day date..... its a fear that we should take advantage of;)


Laterz...
 

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right, rightfully so valentines day is in febuary and so accordingly you can get some on valentines day. After Vday has passed does febuary have any charm left?

Do you think there will be any post V-day aftershocks? or even the month being after january and women's resolutions (whatever they maybe) are failing?
 

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errr....

Originally posted by PRMoon
right, rightfully so valentines day is in febuary and so accordingly you can get some on valentines day. After Vday has passed does febuary have any charm left?

Do you think there will be any post V-day aftershocks? or even the month being after january and women's resolutions (whatever they maybe) are failing?

If you get the girl hooked, then it will stay (the charm etc), but u need to keep it going.... so if u f*ck up, then obviously it wont stay, but if u keep it going, then it WILL stay... common sence:rolleyes:

But this applies ALL the time, not only for V-day... V-day just gives u a "head-start" in a sence.


Laterz...
 

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I have once again pondered the advantages of Febuary. This time I actually spoke with some girls about it while I was out and about because I've been getting some pretty postive hits recently (The new custom celica GT-S might have something to do with it but i doubt it)

One of the girls I spoke with said she's looking to get laid before during and after V-day! And by DIFFERENT guys for each occasion. She says there's so much marketing hype to it that it almost gives her a reason to cut loose.

Another girl said because she failed in her resolution to get a new boyfriend. How does this equate to getting it on I wondered...then low and behold because it was to find a DECENT quality guy and HOLD OUT ON SEX UNTIL THEN. I guess a month flew by, she hasn't found a guy yet, and valentines day (pretty much couples day) is right around the corner so she's wants a confidence boost.

I'm going to keep asking around the bars/clubs before and afer valentienes day but that gem of a day is like the cumstock load if you're looking to get some with little effort around here apparently. Long live Febuary!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've actually had the most success in my life in the spring months. There is a biological explanation for this as it's "mating season" or something like that...that thought aside....

every month should be a good month :)

Seriously, though. The more external factors you throw into your game, the less control you feel you have over your reality and the less happy you will be.

And after all, who doesn't want to be happy?
 

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Originally posted by spitkicker

every month should be a good month :)
Agreed, you should have a good month every month, but reading the signs and taking advantage is like getting a heads up on a pop quiz.

Gotta strike while the irons hot ya know.

"What's better wedding season or christmas?"
"Mr. Grey"
"Wedding season!"
 

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Valentine's Day? Bah. So what? It's just another day to me. Another 24 hours. And since it's going to be a Tuesday this year I'll still have to do normal regular things. You don't even get out of school or work.

I'll probably wear a rose pin, since out of habit I make one minor change in how I dress when certain holidays come up. But other than that it's not special at all.

And what's so bloody great about February? It's still considered Winter, and Winter is never good.

There are only two holidays I really care about: Christmas, because I get stuff and I'm supposed to give stuff to people and hopefully brighten their day. And my birthday, because I get more stuff.


Ben
 
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