"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The DreamScar Method

SlyD4rK

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Intro: The Idea behind this method is to work on my own method of meeting and attracting the women i want to attract to my life. I'm a hopeless romantic in search of love. i know....crazy huh? :crazy:

So here's the game plan so far; let me know what you think.




The DreamScar Method:

Step One: Meet girl; (a.k.a. hook) initial attraction, mention time restraint. Simple routine. Alone. Creative tone

A) Nine-game Routine “How many nines in one-hundred?”

B) “Hey I have to go, but we should hang out sometime” with a friendly smile

Step Two: Pause: create mystery ; execute three-day freeze period.

Step Three: Repeat Steps One and Two if necessary.

Step Four: Isolate for extended amount of time on a specific day. (or split amongst several days different activities also giving casting an atmospheric perspective of dating.)

A) Open up with attraction building material. I.e. do something interactive, possibly a video game or perhaps a jamming session, surfboarding, etc etc.

B) Next comes rapport building material. whilst doing something simple that requires little brainpower. A Game perhaps like chess or another board game, possibly a deck of cards…the choice is yours. Demonstrate that the main purpose of the game is just a distraction to steal a chance to get to know her; however observe this action of demonstrating as a tool to stir thought and focus the mind.

C) The Cube or similar activity that explores thought and emotions and feeling. Creating an emotional connection between two people.

Step Five: Create the atmospheric perspective of passionate physical encounters, the ones you see in movies. Live into those moments and you shall encounter the infamous “Just Be Yourself” period.

Step Six: Occasional Romance- Transition into LTR.

Step Seven: Rinse, Wash, Repeat with multiple woman and manage expectations as to create an environment of MLTRs.

Step Eight?: Isolate one target live long life with target creating magical moments together? (I’m a hopeless Romantic :crazy: )​

Feedback appreciated.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Carbine

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Erm if you want an LTR try doing it like everybody else, just act casual with her, and if you like who she is pursue her, if not stop seeing her. I suggest if you are looking for a life partner, you should take your time and get to know them properly. David DeAngelo says that you can turn these relationships into LTR, but seriously mate, just get to know them before you go for anything like this.
 
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