"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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the curse of the text message

nosmirk

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can you judge anything by the amount of text messages that she sends first?

let's assume that a girl is totally into you in person and starts conversations, and replies very enthusiastically when you initiate text messages and calls. but she hardly sends text messages first.

can that be an indicator of anything? or are text messages not important enough to be considered in any situation?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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backbreaker

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**** texting.

you guys will learn one day


real life conversation in person trumps all


"hey babe, this is great in all but in all honesty I have things to do. I wouldn't mind doing (insert activity) with you but I don't have time to play phone tag with you, i'm busy"
 

nosmirk

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#2, we might have misunderstood each other.

i mean, is it of any significance if she hardly sends text messages first?
 
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