"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The current status with my girlfriend

we all eat food

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okay so my gf i have been with for less then a week, this is our relationship

i see her in school maybe once or twice, then we might text each other, and then i dont talk to her outside school or anything, and i dont even have pplans with her for the weekend.

any help?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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VegasGuy56

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Wait....if you don't make out, don't date, and don't do anything outside of school, how is she your girlfriend?

I'd recommend reading the DJ Bible.
 

Phat

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u have a girlfriend!! lol about timee..
 

Phat

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call her - make plans go see a movie or something
 
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