"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Common Law Of ATTRACTION WITH WOMEN...(rejection is not PERSONAL)

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Dont really feel like typing but i had to offer this little shade of advice that im most likely sure has been stated before but probably not quite like this....

The common law of attraction with women is not personal at all....the truth is whats the bottom line a girl would want you???

well

Why the hell do you want her?!!

i'll tell you...you DOOF!! its because she has something you dont have...and that thing she has you want!!

same goes the opposite direction...to obtain that 10 you want....you must have something she doesnt have....and something she wants... thats why you see fat guys walking around with hotties...or some average guy walking around with a chick who looks like Pam Anderson.....

for Example
a womens wants are fairly simple like us guys when u get by all the bull
A.)MONEY-you have more money than her...and she's broke or she wants a guy with money

B.)VANITY-You have a Better looking Face than hers...or she thinks you have a better look than her...(watch out these women are Vain)
(Associated Feeling= You are a Valuable OBject to her...Boosting her Ego which in return makes her feel happy)

C.)Physique-You have a Better Body than hers...or she believes you have a better body than hers (associated feeling = you boost her Ego..ultimately signaling Euphoric(happy) relief to her) this women can also be vain

D.) LiFESTYLE-(bad boy scenario) YOU have a MORE exciting Lifestyle than hers....whether your dangerous,Exciting,Romantic, Luxurious.. bottom Line SPONTANEOUS AND MYSTERIOUS or CHALLENGING (associated feeling = you make her feel alive or you make her feel compassion(true form of love) )

this is the easiest way any guy can get the girl he wants...by having a valuable lifestyle regardless of how he acts....

E.)More Money - Also fits hand in hand with lifestyle but it deserved its own section
YOU have more money than her-(associated Feeling= IF shes vain she feels ego boost because you are a Valuable object in her life....if shes not then you are a great provider...she feels protected)

now this only works if you have it and she WANTS it...for example you cant look better than a woman and she doesnt want a good looking guy...

these reasons are all reasons girls end up dating guys and staying with them...these are the things women get attached to..

thats probably why a good-looking guy with nice physique great looks ...rough around the edges and mysterious with money could probably get any girl he wanted...but then again theres a girl out there who just wants a plain old joe...


so next time you get rejected dont take it personal...you just dont have what she's looking for. So what you need to do is FISH FOR THE WOMEN WHO LIKES YOUR BAIT..but knowing how a women Thinks by reading they above you can present the image a little better....

KEYWORD IMAGE if you can succesfully make her believe that you have what she doesnt have and she wants it and needs it...AND SHE believes there really nothing you need or would want from her...no matter how hot she is....YOU HAVE CONTROL OF THIS WOMEN...

true story...i do it all the time :D ...happy hunting guys
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Indeed. I agree. The only thing I add is that you have to be nice, tell the truth in what you want, and not pressure the girl. Also it's the man's responsibility 100% of the time to set the pace of reality between himself and the aforementioned woman. You state the obvious, but this is essential knowledge, I thank you for your further insight into the female psyche. Make these b!tches come easy and cvm easy. Chuch. :up:
 

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yea i was pretty Cynical on these ideas...the truth is you dont even have to be nice...the key is to be kind and Gentle....all Women want to feel like little girls again....if you can pull that off with her you can do whatever you want with her...
 
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Badmannaz said:
yea i was pretty Cynical on these ideas...the truth is you dont even have to be nice...the key is to be kind and Gentle....all Women want to feel like little girls again....if you can pull that off with her you can do whatever you want with her...
I almost thought my English was off.. but it's not, looking at this thesaurus.. nice, kind, and gentle are all synonyms. We're on the same page. :up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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