"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The College Lady

blinkwatt

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Quick intro- i went to high school with this one chick,back when i was a afc,she got kicked out for grades,turned into one of those chicks who went out with older guys. I took her to prom while she had her boyfriend(I took her as more of a friend thing).

Now here is the interesting part,we now go to junoir college together and she sits next to me in a class. She is a busy girl with her job and she is apparently trying in school now(she darts off to her classes pretty fast). I would try to put some ****y and funny in but i cant think of any during class. Today was the first time i thought of some when she dropped her pen in between us and looked at me to pick it up and i looked at her and looked at the pen and back at her then smiled,then she smacked my arm(cause she isnt used to being treated like that,cause she is porn start hot). An examples of stuff I could do during class?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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