The club is a terrible place to meet women for me.

[Chamber36]

Listen Elstud.

You're trying too hard, with too many women.

There should be a few women in each club who are automatically your type. You might automatically be their type. They will want you to approach them, but they will want to know whether you have value first. So you'll need preselection from other women and/or to be popular in the club(knowing the bartenders etc).

I've been there. You're now 21; you can't just walk into a club and stand with your feet wide and expect the girls to flock towards you. You can't make deliberate eye-contact with every HB you see on the dancefloor and get a make out. It's the male version of the validation seeking behavior they exhibit.

The way to get these women is to simply focus on women who are receptive from the get-go. And I don't even mean to approach them ASAP. Tease these women. Make them think they are earning you. Tell them to follow you around the club. You need to be as non-needy as possible, and as sexual as possible.

Which basically means doing whatever the F you want until you bump into one of these receptive girls and then escalating really fast.

 

[Konada]

If you were as "confident" and suave as you claim to be you would have had a threesome by now. And I'm not talking about guy guy girl. Sorry, I know that's your favorite.

:crackup:

 

[ElStud]

LOL!!! Elstud!!! Where you been? Missed ya' buddy!

Hmm, 18... Been here for less than 2 years, no FR's... Nope, I'm not even gonna bother .

How can you say you are confident? You dont know what confidence is.

You went up expecting to get rejected and 'knew' that these girls would never give you the time of the day and would not be interested.

This is as low confidence as there is, it doesnt get lower. There is nothing confident about your first post. Have a little self belief, go for an ugly girl to get a moral boost.


Club game is harder because of the sea of **** that surrounds constantly. You need to be bigger, more confident and more lucky than normal.

But is that, not confidence? I went up to all those sets with zero approach anxiety. I don't even really hesitate, I just consider whether or not it'll be worth it. And yes, I do expect rejection from THOSE kind of chicks, because of how they are.

'Course, not that that really matters. It probably wouldn't even be worth it if I DID get them. Remember, just because a chick can suck ****, doesn't mean she knows how to suck **** well. A dude could end up doing ALL THAT WORK for a 5 who gives bad head.

You guys are right though. Me and my friends probably need to find clubs that don't attract these types.