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The C*ck Block, and how to deal with them.

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About a year ago, myself and a semi inebriated young lady were flirting and hitting it off(At a bar) really well, dancing and such, and two of her friends, a male (who tried to interfere with our dancing) and a female (Who told her in front of me "You're staying with me tonite") after shooting me an icy stare....

Wow.

The male didnt get too far, as I am starting to get used to being physical with males who try that s**t on the dance floor. They dont recognize boundaries, so I merely push or shove them out of the way these days.

But how do I handle a female c#ck blocker? I cannot get physical with them, but it seems to me, that this is the WORSE thing someone can do to a DJ who is simply trying out his game on an interested woman.

Advice?
 

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Depends on how in you are with the girl you're dancing with. I've been in situations like this before with girls at night clubs. First off I'll tell the girl i'm dancing with that we should get out of there. If I see her friend telling her that they should leave together I'll just say, "she's in good hand's I'll bring her back tomorrow". If the friend objects I just remind them that we're all adults here and if she wants to leave with me then that's her decison, not yours.

Some times it takes a little more work, talking and what not but what usually happens is the girlfriend will just accept it say "be careful with her" or get pissed throw her hands up in the air and storm out of the club. Regardless she'll leave you and your interest alone.
 
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Good advice, but she wasnt quite "that ready" yet, unfortunatley, but I'll remember that for the future.
 
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having a wingman around to take the c0ck blocker away is the best solution.

or you can neg hit her saying something like: "jealousy is a bad thing, I can dance with you when i'm finish here"

or if the c0ckblocker isn't being really b*tchy about it (and if she is hot, or hotter than the one you're dancing), then proceed and take her for a dance (just grab her, smile and dance away from the other girl)
 
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