"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Brad Pitt analogy

skinnyguy

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A few weeks ago someone asked why people use the Brad Pitt/Channing Tatum analogy

This is because with some men, women will not use sh!t tests due to how high value they are. Many guys on here are going through these tests due to their low value, and it is frustrating them a lot.

The analogy still stands, whether you like it or not. Carry on.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No.Danny

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No just you!
 

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skinnyguy said:
A few weeks ago someone asked why people use the Brad Pitt/Channing Tatum analogy

This is because with some men, women will not use sh!t tests due to how high value they are. Many guys on here are going through these tests due to their low value, and it is frustrating them a lot.

The analogy still stands, whether you like it or not. Carry on.
So basically, I am not a rich millionaire with incredible looks and this is why I've had to spend my time working on my game.. ****. Fortunately I like game and I like the chase, so it ainte my problem.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is just flat-out wrong. No matter who you are, you will get sh!t tested eventually. Women don't sh!t test consciously. People use the celebrity analogies to make a point: if she's interested enough, she will make time for you no matter how busy she is. It has nothing to do with sh!t tests.

A woman could have school full-time, work full-time, and do other things in what little free time she has, and still make time to see you if she likes you enough. But sooner or later, you're still going to get sh!t tests left and right.
 
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