"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheMale

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i just want to ask from 2006 you actually never did cold approach ?
i mean you just started your journal but until now what did you do ?


keep up the great work man !
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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vagrant

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TheMale said:
i just want to ask from 2006 you actually never did cold approach ?
i mean you just started your journal but until now what did you do ?


keep up the great work man !
I signed up around 06. Back then all I did was skateboard pretty much all day. I never cared about girls. Not until my first girlfriend caught my attention.

I realized then that I really didn't know how to get with a girl so I used google and for some awesome reason I came across sosuave.com.

But yeah, I wanted to know how to find out if a girl likes me. What to do on a date. How to go for the kiss etc. Basically noob questions.

I got lucky with my first girlfriend. She was just really into me. She was 15 and I was 18. I was a skateboarding dude so everything was pretty easy. She was a sophomore and I was a senior so it just happened you know. And she was HOT too!!! Even hotter now that she just turned 21.

Anyways, we stayed until she turned 18. I was 21 then. For 3 years all I did was think about her all day. I'm 24 now. I didn't spin plates or anything like that. I was devastated. I went through that phase where I felt like nothing else mattered anymore. Which is my fault because I did everything backwards you know.

Love, Laugh, Live...that's how it went with me. And when the love was gone...laugh, and live went with it.

Live, Laugh, Love...in that order.

In other words, we were at the right place at the right time, but I was just not the right person at that place and time.

In those 3 years she's been with other guys. I should know, thanks to facebook. Which is worst than masturbating if you ask me. I would always wait to see if she would put new pictures up. I know you're thinking I'm crazy. But I'm not. It just became a bad habit. Like I said, worst than masturbating. Luckily I was able to stopped.

But yeah, I've just had enough. I'm 24 and I'm just hungry for everything. I'm thankful for everything I am and have but at the same time I'm hungry for more.

I haven't had sex for 3 years. I made out with only 2 girls since and approached probably 2 or 3 times.

Now I'm not in it for the numbers but that's just sad. At least I have a lot of money for working a lot.

So right now I'm looking to date a lot of chicks. Not really focus on them. Right now my focus is to become a world champion boxer. But I really want to improve my social life.

Anyways, I know you didn't ask me to tell you my life story but this is my journal so I'm just throwing stuff in there.

But yeah thank you very much. Keep updated dude. I've been approaching a lot lately. I will share exactly what I do. All the exact details. This journal is really intended to leave a lot of great tips from my experience. One day like Pook. I will leave this site and never come back.

That would be when I know I no longer need that Spanish guy name Manual and can handle my own. No need for me to come back and give tips because I already left them here in this thread...=p
 
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