"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Black Flag

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I don't have role models. That's one of my things. We preach so much about not pedestalizing women, the same should go for men too. But god damn it I would be lost with out this guy. Shark. Creator of Solvemygirlproblems.com blog.

This guy and his ideals embodied everything that is DonJuan and everything we try to preach here. I wish I could direct you to his blog which sadly no longer exists, which is why I'm directing SS to his E-book: The Black Flag.

A must read for everyone, everything that you need to know about being a Don Juan condensed into 139 pgs. Texting, body language, mindset, etc.

It's free, it's short, and powerful. Check it out, just Google 'The Black Flag Shark' and it'll pop up. I think it's more valuable than the DJ bible and if we can get newcomers to check it out I think we could help a lot of men. All it takes is the first page and I guarantee you'll be hooked. There is no fluff, just 139 pages of pure information that will improve your life. Please, read that shít.

If anyone has read the book already, leave your thoughts of it below, let's have a discussion.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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90% sure Shark is Pook, I've internalized and studied too much of his work to not notice
 

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Yes, I agree - solid book. No doubt. I wonder if someone out there archived his blog as it covered more angles than his book, and the guy's writing had some serious panache, as if Roissy and Rollo had been merged together as a single entity.

If there's one thing I can remember from it off the top of my head, something that really stuck to me, was his recommendation to seek out 'competitive arenas' as a means of fomenting a sense of masculinity, be it in the work place by selecting a career path with at least a modicum of aggression required to excel (ex. attorney, sales), or extracurricular activities (ex. triathlons, martial arts) - basically any realm in which a participant is enticed to be the best.
 

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Can someone upload the pdf?
 

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Between_The_Lines said:
Yes, I agree - solid book. No doubt. I wonder if someone out there archived his blog as it covered more angles than his book, and the guy's writing had some serious panache, as if Roissy and Rollo had been merged together as a single entity.
You could tell he was heavily influenced by both. I found some website where Shark's blog posts are saved. A couple quick Google searches will lead you there.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MidnightCity said:
My writing improved a lot because of shark. His was also the first red pill site I ever stumbled upon
Same here. My writing was already decent but became astounding after reading his work. His conversational style filled with interesting vocabulary and vivid imagery inspired me. I pulled back however, cause' I found my self trying to write EXACTLY like the dude. I was worse than a garden hōe, a giant tool check out some of my older posts.

We gotta remember to interpret others information for ourselves and not live by every word someone says. Similar to how a lot of people here treat Pook.
 

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*****didnt read above so sorry if i repeat what someone else said.

I remember reading on here a long time ago that shark is Pook. And then he came here and developed himself even more. You aren't the only person to mention him after all.
 

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There is no way that Shark is Pook. They are completely different.
 
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Obsidian said:
There is no way that Shark is Pook. They are completely different.
How does femenism view these men. Theres no way they want men controlling females with their ****s.
 

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Still considering the Pook-Shark similarity.Maybe someone should ask him.The Midnightcity guy said he waz in contact with Shark.Could help the many to know its one dude.
Anyway,the red pill,the feminine imperative,the 'matrix' are all interconnected.They learnt the truth,and chose to enlighten,everyone.Kudos!Still,my Pookster curiosity has got the best of me.:)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Pook wrote abstractly and emotionally; Shark wrote matter-of-factly. Pook never used vulgarity; Shark used vulgarity with great frequency. Pook loved natural philosophy; Shark loved science and analysis. Pook never actively encouraged fornication; Shark did. Pook did not advocate "Game" to get women; Shark did. They do not seem the same to me whatsoever.
 

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Shark's stuff is some of the best ever. Too bad he quit writing. The Black Flag is an excellent book and is indeed written in a matter of fact style. I bought it on his site a while back, but I'm sure it can be found online somewhere with a little searching.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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All the places to get it for free weren't working. If it's as good as you say, it's worth the 4 bucks!
 
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