"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sato21m

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Something that works for you and you know it works.
I'm thinking of buying a book that is call How to persuade people is based on NLP. Maybe you guys have something beter and free.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yeah, don't go cheap on things that can dramatically improve your income (working in sales or not). Books like this need to be re-read and marked, treated as workbooks.

Actually, I like Cialdini too, although he's not a salesman I think everyone should own a copy of Influence, for all sorts of reasons.

Tom Hopkins does a complete bible for sales, although somewhat boring.

I have a number of NLP based books such as Persuasion Engineering, but I wouldn't recommend it to you.

Some of the best, most engrossing reads are some of the oldies, you can probably get them from old book stores. Big League Salesmanship and Compelling Selling are the real deal.

Another book everyone should own, especially budding DJs is Get anyone to do anything, it's in the same vien as Cialdin's works and has useful research information.
 
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