You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
STOP!!!!! RIGHT NOW... there is no hottest girl in 2005.. to know the hottest girl in 2005, you would hvae to seen every girl in the world, which no one has.
Sometimes attraction is the wierdest thing. Personally I prefer them thicker than most celebrity women...
...but for some crazy reason skinny little Kiera Knightley absolutely kills me. I can't figure it out, but any picture of her pretty much stops me in my tracks.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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