"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Art of Seduction

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I was considering buying the Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. I never hear about this book in the DJ community, I always hear about The Mystery Method, Double Your Dating, etc.

So for those of you that have read it, is it good and worth buying? What is it about and does it have new material that's not on this board? I skimmed over it today and it sounds similar to what we read here, but a little bit more theoretical. He even gives historical examples. Greene also has the 48 Laws of Power that relates to seduction to a certain extent. I'm also thinking about getting that book too. So is The Art of Seduction good material and worth buying?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Actually, there is a discussion topic on Art of seduction in the off topic section. But to answer your question, yes the book is worth a read.
 
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You can d/l it in pdf form off eMule. Its a different kind of book, its not a pick up book. It's about personalities, male and female. The anti-seduction portion was the most insightful I believe.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yeah I was wondering who Robert Greene was, he's not one of the main DJ's you often hear about. But he sounds pretty freakin smart. Thanks everyone.
 
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lol the act of seduction cool.all seduction books works is just all about the level of that book.why not try the womens culture code.
 
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The Art of Seduction is an interesting book. The 48 Laws of Power is more about how to kiss someone's ass effectively while you look for a good spot along the back to stick the knife...not something I got into.
 
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lol the act of seduction cool.all seduction books works is just all about the level of that book.why not try the act of approaching.if you like don't buy.what do you prefer?:crackup:
 
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this book to me was life changing...

the seductive characters...the stories are all very influencial to me...

to me i find it a very mind opening book when it comes to human psychology. what do people really want? why do women like bad boys? its all answered in the art of seduction. you don't simply read this book, you pull out a highlighter and you study the damn thing...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was actually going to start a thread on this very topic. I've just recently found out about Robert Greene's books. I'm currently reading The 33 Strategies of War.
 
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