The Art of Detachment

[JohnyTheArrow]

To be confident with women you must practice Art of Detachment.

Got some number from hot chick and are eager to fvck her ? Delete the number and forget about her.
You met some chick online and are so eager to talk to her ? Erase her from your life for a week.
You gf showed disrespect ? Give her silent treatment.
Girls offers you pvssy but at the same wants you beg for it ? Ignore her completly.
Girl didnt respond to your msg ? Delete her completly and forget about her.
Plate wants to fvck ? Randomly reject her offer.

Attachment is always loss of power and is inevitable in LTR to protect your confidence you must practice Detachment regulary.

Attachment is easy and pleasant but Detachment can bring you power and joy.Nothing more powerful than a feeling when you shot down pvssy offer because you felt like so.

 

[Yewki]

I think what you're getting at is outcome independence. Detaching yourself from what you want doesn't really make sense. If a girl ignores your text message, it's better to just not care to begin with.

Some of these might be useful as learing experiences and challenges, but doing this stuff regularly would end up being counter productive. Go for what you want, just always invest minimally in the outcome... ideally have be independent of the outcome.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Call me crazy, but there are some thing in certain moods and situations I would choose over *****. I am weird like that I can be Asexual one instance or in the next instance be the biggest creep, sex crazed animal and women can tell hahahaha

 

[JohnChops]

Call me crazy, but there are some thing in certain moods and situations I would choose over *****. I am weird like that I can be Asexual one instance or in the next instance be the biggest creep, sex crazed animal and women can tell hahahaha

Youre not weird man, I feel the same. My ex-gf wanted to have sex but I wanted to go train, you bet your ass I went to train instead of railing her.

Sh1t, I like going out to do sh1t other than sex most of the time.

 

[Meisterman]

Detachment allows abundance to come into your life without you even trying. When you stop trying to force things being a certain way and instead detach to any outcome whatsoever, you ALLOW the best possible scenario to occur at the best possible time in the best possible way. This is because you are now emitting a feeling of joy and abundance within yourself, and you don't need anything else to make you happy. Paradoxically, at this time you will find more joy (and more women) come into your life than ever before. All without any (or minimal) effort on your part.

 

[narcissist]

Call me crazy, but there are some thing in certain moods and situations I would choose over *****. I am weird like that I can be Asexual one instance or in the next instance be the biggest creep, sex crazed animal and women can tell hahahaha

Right there with you bro.