"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Approach at the Beach.

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The waves crash down upon the sandy shores, as little children run into the ocean. The wave streches out to the lifeguard post. It was surrounded by four dozen women bathing in the sun; tight buts, and big breasts.

As I jumped into the ocean with a friend of mine who visited from Florida, I heard my name faintly. I turned facing the shore and I spotted a young woman with long blond hair radiating from her orange lifeguard shirt. She was hot, but I did not recognize her.

She yelled, "[name]," again. I recognized her. She was a former classmate from one of my classes. I waved, and said, "Hey [name] how are you?"

She continued to patrol the shores.

As she came back, she approached me again with casual talk. How did you do in [subject] class?

She had work to do, so she kept the conversation short.

After she walked away, a thought invaded my mind. "Ask her out!"

But I could not find her, after that.

I am planning to go out to the beach at the same time, in the same area, to find her. Once I find her - if I do - I will ASK when she is off, etc.

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Note: I will finish the story!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I hate that little guy who hangs over your shoulder before approaching a woman. The little guy who calls himself: "Doubt."


Argh, can't... get...him...off!
 

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Well you need to grab that little man and put a bullet through his head, then grab him by the balls and throw him out to sea.

Now for your situation. This sounds like one of those oppurtunities, when you haven't seen a chick for a while and then you see her, you can show how much of a better man you have become. She will be impressed and there might be a bit of attraction coming from her.

Now I'm assuming that something like that happened and your in with a chance. When you do see her again don't f**k around with her just be confident and upfront with her that you would like to spend some time. If she cuts you down......... who cares.
Keep us updated. Good Luck Mate.

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Thanks,

I could not find her during the past few days; probably due to the poor weather.

I am going to Summer College for High School students, thus I will be unable to contact her until I return on August first.

I will continue then.
 
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