"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The 3 Types

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Iv been out in the field a lot lately and iv learnt so much it’s becoming hard and harder for me to even process it all.

Note: These are from MY OWN observations and below are the conclusions iv reached from those observations.

While iv been out advancing my PU and social skills iv come to the conclusion that there is ONLY 3 types of guys who can meet and CONSISTANTLY sleep with HIGH CALIBRE women or what one considerers to be high calibre women.

1st The guy with the MASSIVE social circle of friends and
there friends, friends and there
friends, friends and it goes on and on

2nd The guy who works of approach invitations (girls show
this to guys there
attracted to from a distance hoping they’ll come and
hit on them)

3rd The guy who waits for nothing, he’ll just see a girl he
likes and approaches her (the COLD
approach).


Ok I don’t really know a HOLE LOT about the 1st and the 2nd types of guys since I fall into the 3rd category but what IV come to realise is that all 3 types have positives and negatives. I’ll start with the positives of each one while moving to the negatives.

The 1st guy with the MASSIVE social circle will find it EASIRE to sleep with high calibre women because things like flaking, ***** shields, dead numbers and disrespectfulness won’t be as potent epically if he is given an accomplishment intro by one of his mates.
He also won’t have to worry about getting OUT RIGHT rejected, if his advances ARE rejected it is more likely to be done less directly.

The negatives iv found out of using this way of consistently sleeping with high calibre women is that they are much more likely to play the “let him wait game”, less likely to act sluty because of the social circle consequences in acting in such a way, it can also take MUCH LONGER to sex them and there are LIMITS to how far the guy can CONSISTANLY sleep with different high calibre women within his MASSIVE social circle with out breeding some sort of resentment from others.
Plus the chicks in his social circle will be more conscious about letting there buying temperature increase around him because THEY KNOW HE’LL TAKE ADVANTAGE OF IT.

The 2nd guy who works of approach invitations (women show this to guys there
attracted to from a distance hoping they’ll come and hit on them) will find it EASIRE to talk to random woman because HE KNOWS they are already attracted to him on some level before going over to open them, he wont encounter any ***** shields because the girls are already attracted to him, less likely to get dead numbers, gets less disrespectfulness, there is NO LIMIT on how many woman he chooses to be with and chicks will be more willing to do sluty or inappropriate things with him because of the lack of social consequences.

The negatives about waiting for A.I’s (Approach Innovations) before going to go talk to high calibre women is that the sort of women you attract will depend HIGHLY on your looks, social proof, and over all aura, also the other negatives are that some high calibre women show no visual invitations or ioi’s (indicator of interest) to guys there attracted to. This sort of guy WILL lose many chances to sleep with many different high calibre women because he might of MISSED OR NOT NOTICED the A.I. (Approach Innovation).

The 3rd guy waits for nothing, he’ll just see a girl he likes and approaches her (the COLD approach).
Depending on his skill set this type of guy will get loads more numbers then both the other types of guys, be seen as more confidant and the type that TAKES WHAT HE WANTS, WHEN HE WANTS, depending on his skill set he will also sleep with more high calibre women more CONSISTANLY, chicks will be more willing to do sluty or inappropriate things with him because of the lack of social consequences and there is NO LIMIT on how many woman he chooses to be with and when this type of guy gets to a certain skill set level he will be able to sleep with high calibre women MUCH FASTER then the 1st and 2nd guys if he is put in there situations.

The negatives is that even tho this type guy may approach MORE high calibre women and get way more numbers and lays he has to WORK MUCH HARDER, he WILL get more dead numbers, flakes, disrespectfulness and OUT RIGHT REJECTSIONS from high calibre chicks then the other 2 types of guys, and to top it of his successes is TOTALLY dependent on his SKILL SET (how good he is at PU).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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