The 2 paths of the DJ

[Fender]

I've always been amazed by the amount of material (and sometimes, cr@p) found on this board and other seduction sites around the internet. A while back, I tried to llist ALL the available styles and "games" available so that n00bs will have a better idea of whats going on when they first start out.

I've given up on that. There are simply WAAAY too many styles around to be able to catalogue and list. Plus, even two DJ's using the same style will be TREMENDOUSLY different when picking up girls- this makes writing a description for the styles that much harder.

But instead, I've realised that all the materials found on this site and other seduction sites fall into two main categories. The material is either:

a) aimed at the GIRL

b) aimed at YOURSELF

Don't know what I mean? Let me give you an example.

Speed seduction is a classic example of a technique aimed at the GIRL. Why? Because everything you do is aimed at incresing HER interest level, HER level of arousal, HER attraction for you.

Pooks material is a classic example of stuff aimed at YOURSELF. The goal is to improve YOURSELF, enjoy YOURSELF and just...BE YOURSELF.

Now, I shall pass no judgement on which method is the better one, they both have their goods and bad. In fact, a well rounded DJ should have a mixture of both.

So, take a moment- sit back and think. Which route would you prefer to take? Which method seems to appeal to you more. Then, I encourage you to go forth, and master the path you have chosen to take.

Good luck, and good night

 

[oakraiderz2]

Naturally, youre gonna impvoe yourself; however, at the same time youre increase her attraction, yada yada.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

nice reit there raiderz... lol, short and quick, it does the trick...

I love the knowledge in your post Fender, deeper than usual.


I hope that's not asdeep as you go though... You've got to see more points to the game than just A nd B.... dude even little kids say they learn the ABC's

 

[Fender]

Lol, my bad for not making myself clear.

What I really wanted to get off my chest was that you can either spend the rest of your life pleasing the girl, geting her approval and just basically...being a seducing "leach"

Or you can put the focus on yourself and go out n party! Have fun, improve your life, get confident, etc.

I read the SS stuff and although it sounded great (tempted to use it myself), I was constantly asking myself the question: "Do I REALLY wanna spend the rest of my life using patterns and lines and focusing on the girl liking me? Or would I rather just focus on improving myself and getting girls by 'being myself'"

But thats just me. I'm not here looking to get laid- but I know many of you here are. In which case, focusing on the girl would be a better option for you guys. Its usually less time consuming and can have a better successs rate.

Thats why you gotta really think about what you want. Both ways have its advantages and costs.

"You've got to see more points to the game than just A nd B"-Boner da Stoner

Funny you mention that. I'm trying as hard as I can to refine the entire game into 2 or 3 basic points. Obviously, there's more to it, but heck...just trying to make my life easier