"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The 2 Biggest Mistakes a Seducer Can Make

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The two biggest mistakes a seducer can make are:

1) Assuming the next girl will like you any more than the last girl.
2) Assuming the next girl will like you any less than the last girl.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The biggest mistake any man can make is to assume anything.

The moral of the story here, is to never assume anything in life.

Always be sure of everything before you proceed with anything that you do.

Assuming anything about women is a guaranteed fail.
 

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I understand the point you guys are trying to get across, but at the same time I think it's important to remember the principle of "assume attraction".

But as OP said, each girl you meet is a mutually exclusive instance of an interaction - your results with a prior girl (usually >_>) will have no impact on the next's feelings for you.
 

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Konduit said:
I understand the point you guys are trying to get across, but at the same time I think it's important to remember the principle of "assume attraction".

But as OP said, each girl you meet is a mutually exclusive instance of an interaction - your results with a prior girl (usually >_>) will have no impact on the next's feelings for you.

What scenario would you rather have? Assuming you might get laid or actually getting laid?

Assuming attraction is fools gold, women who like you make their attraction rather obvious.
 
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