I have great thanks to give to you. Tonight I got my second girlfriend ever, I wouldn't really call the first a girlfriend, but I must count her. The girlfriend I have now is the one I have been posting about the last couple of weeks. She actually asked me tonight to go out after I used the wait method on her to get her more attracted, which actually worked. Then after she asked me I kept putting her off and letting other things happen so I could put it off longer. When I finally said yes she was just begging for me to go out with her, I really love this method. I used some of my kino, not much yet becuase we don't want anyone to know yet, we agreed to tell 4 people for now. Neither of us yet want out parents to know because of our age difference. I am 16 and she is 13, the biggest problem is the I will be 17 four months before she is 14. I do not know we will make it that long but we will see. I know you people do not believe in the fate method but everything seemed to work out like it was fate. I really thank you and will be posting as problems come up with all of this. Later, Kegger. P.S. If you got any tips, hints, ect let me know, I am happy to hear from you.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Thanks Guys
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
JayUK
Don Juan
hey man, everytime i hav a gurlfriend, I always worry about her not likin me as much as i like her! I know this aint gna be the best help, jus dont worry about her finishin it man, an try an enjoy ureself!
shiningshadow
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Whoa, 16 and 13? I suggest you don't get too attached, keep in mind that you are the prize. This is especially true now, because of that age difference.
U know how good it feels for once not just wanting but being wanted. It really just makes you feel great. Now I have a fight becuase we do not want to tell anyone, if they figure out, well nothing you can do there, but we told like 6 people and it is going to be hard not bragging.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I really see nothing wrong with it. I have read here and you all tell people to not go by what others think and go with whether you like the girl or not. I like her and I am doing, even if people do not except it. I also noticed that I am not nervous around other girls since I now have a girlfriend. It seems to work wonders. Atleast if this does not work out I will have some others lined up. I also learned something important last night about dancing. I learned this from a girl and she said it like this "to the girl it does not matter how well you can dance as long as she knows you are there touching her and dancing with her." That really boosted my dancing confidence.
I am doing great, I will get to see her again tomorrow, maybe morning but I know in the evening. Well thanks for all the help. I will post how it is going to keep you updated on my status and what I am learning because all of this is new to me.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
socialsecurity
Don Juan
That's cool you're getting started with a new girl, but I'm definitely in the camp that thinks its too young. If you go to same school (read: highschool, junior high, college...) thats fine, but a....highschool junior with a....8th grader? Yikes man.
Stay safe.
Stay safe.