"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thanks for being honest!

MountainSlide

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Started a convo with HB7.5 at coffee shop, got her number, went on a date with her and it went well; we have some nice sexual attraction gearing up. Any good ideas for a date and seduction back to my place?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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EyeBRollin

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What is her living situation?

I'd recommend having the logistics closer to her the first two dates; provided she has a good living situation. They usually respond better ("safety").

If she is really high interest, just pick a local dive bar, pool hall, or bowling alley near your place (walking distance or less than 5 minute drive). Take her to two venues in close proximity to each other, as this gives the illusion of two separate dates. After you're kissing and groping each other, invite her back to your place.
 
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