theonedude
Don Juan
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ok, i know that i prolly shouldnt waste your time with putting this on the board but i have gotta say thank you all so much!
ok, my story,
before freshman year, i had no lady-friends to speak of, and whenever i would try for a girl i would be so desperate it hurts. like on time i told this girl i loved HER! i never even had gone on a date.
then freshman year comes around, i try to change to some degree, but i still only have like 2 friends who are girls, and i liked one of em ( friendship thing ) well neways its ok bcuz yea we r still friends n shes still cool, n if you pm me ill tell you how she found out i liked her, trust me, its way too funny for me to say publicly(maybe just embarassin)
so i am feelin down and stuff jsut about that neways, until around the end a january this year.
so i read it, and i realize just how good this site is, so i read a ton of articles for like a week. then i went to the discussion forum, found the bible and read that ( well i read it all, maybe not concentratin oh so much). and i start realizin that i really shouldnt care about women and that i was really placing them higher on a pedastle than they belonged. well, i pretty much stopped the pedastle stuff immediately. because it really does make me sick when i think about it. then i start to be more flirty, and girls started liking me more. And i didnt act all nice and listened to their problems any more ( im not a tampon! woo! )
One time, this girl was telling me something that happened to her that day that was bad, and i offered her some tissues just to be a jackazz.
well i was confident enough to ask out this one girl and she said yes! well the 2 dates we went on so far have gone really well, (im doin all those dj things without even realizing it until after i do it), ( im still not askin the chick out tho, that just seems kinda dumb unless she asked me ) shes like a 8 at least, all my friends give her a 10.
well jsut today, a teacher said to me that she has really noticed that my personality has really changed since i was in her class.
she went on to say that at the beginning of the year i seemed tense and really caught up in the little things. but now i seemed to have finally relaxed and seem more laid back and seem to look more at the big picture.
I HAVE CHANGED SO MUCH THAT EVEN THE FACULTY AT MY SCHOOL NOTICES!!
well i am soo much happier now than at any other point in my life, i learned how to play guitar too!
wow, im glad i could get that out of my system.
P.S.
i dont think this site is about dating help any mroe to me, its more about how to make sure you dont get stuck worrying about littel things like girls or popularity or any of that crap.
its about beciming a man and not bein a damn pussie!
a man really doesnt worry a lot about women! he worried about important stuff like working for whatever organization he has, a man has the courage to always say what needs to be said in any situation. he doesnt try to hide his insecurities with overconfidence, he just says what he thinks, and doesnt worry or give a damn about what others think of it, as long as its what he knows is right for him.
oh and learn guitar because it is way cool.
i dunno if theres a whole lot to burn in here, but please dont burn this too bad.
ok, my story,
before freshman year, i had no lady-friends to speak of, and whenever i would try for a girl i would be so desperate it hurts. like on time i told this girl i loved HER! i never even had gone on a date.
then freshman year comes around, i try to change to some degree, but i still only have like 2 friends who are girls, and i liked one of em ( friendship thing ) well neways its ok bcuz yea we r still friends n shes still cool, n if you pm me ill tell you how she found out i liked her, trust me, its way too funny for me to say publicly(maybe just embarassin)
so i am feelin down and stuff jsut about that neways, until around the end a january this year.
so i read it, and i realize just how good this site is, so i read a ton of articles for like a week. then i went to the discussion forum, found the bible and read that ( well i read it all, maybe not concentratin oh so much). and i start realizin that i really shouldnt care about women and that i was really placing them higher on a pedastle than they belonged. well, i pretty much stopped the pedastle stuff immediately. because it really does make me sick when i think about it. then i start to be more flirty, and girls started liking me more. And i didnt act all nice and listened to their problems any more ( im not a tampon! woo! )
One time, this girl was telling me something that happened to her that day that was bad, and i offered her some tissues just to be a jackazz.
well i was confident enough to ask out this one girl and she said yes! well the 2 dates we went on so far have gone really well, (im doin all those dj things without even realizing it until after i do it), ( im still not askin the chick out tho, that just seems kinda dumb unless she asked me ) shes like a 8 at least, all my friends give her a 10.
well jsut today, a teacher said to me that she has really noticed that my personality has really changed since i was in her class.
she went on to say that at the beginning of the year i seemed tense and really caught up in the little things. but now i seemed to have finally relaxed and seem more laid back and seem to look more at the big picture.
I HAVE CHANGED SO MUCH THAT EVEN THE FACULTY AT MY SCHOOL NOTICES!!
well i am soo much happier now than at any other point in my life, i learned how to play guitar too!
wow, im glad i could get that out of my system.
P.S.
i dont think this site is about dating help any mroe to me, its more about how to make sure you dont get stuck worrying about littel things like girls or popularity or any of that crap.
its about beciming a man and not bein a damn pussie!
a man really doesnt worry a lot about women! he worried about important stuff like working for whatever organization he has, a man has the courage to always say what needs to be said in any situation. he doesnt try to hide his insecurities with overconfidence, he just says what he thinks, and doesnt worry or give a damn about what others think of it, as long as its what he knows is right for him.
oh and learn guitar because it is way cool.
i dunno if theres a whole lot to burn in here, but please dont burn this too bad.
