“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thank you So-Suavers!!

asid76

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I have been reading this site off and on for like two years. I finally joined in March and started really reading the DJBible and trying out what was suggested there. I have yet to try running "patterns" on a girl but at the same time, I have been getting so many women now that its amazing.

I think what I was lacking before I started posting and asking questions was confidence, lack of good eye contact, stale clothes in my closet, and bad posture among other things. I have learned things here that I never even CONSIDERED before. I read about posture, looked in a mirror and straightened my back out. I read about good eye contact and lightly teasing/joking with girls and I have had success. I learned that dressing all in black was getting me nowhere so I injected some colour into my wardrobe. Everything I have read here has helped to some degree. The tips and advice I have gotten from this site are GOLDEN!!

There are tons of girls where I work and in the last three weeks they are starting to really take notice. I haven't even talked to some girls at work and I can tell that they are interested still. The ones that I do talk to are alot more flirty than girls used to be with me. I love it. For example last week, I had a knock on my door and there stands one of my co-workers: hot, drunk and horny. Late night booty-call. This NEVER used to happen. Ever. I always had women AROUND me, almost ONLY as friends, but I don't think girls used to want me to f**k them, but now they do. To be honest its a little overwhelming. I have so much female attention that sometimes I feel a bit awkward. But I am definitely getting used to it.

It honestly feels like the women have always wanted me but were waiting for me to become a "man" by THEIR definition, which by OUR definition is being an "alpha male". I am so much happier, I have been reading the advice religiously for 5 months and in the last 3-4 weeks I have completely seen a change. Even friends who haven't seen me in awhile are taking notice, saying things like: "wow girls really like you" or "so-and-so couldn't get that girl but YOU could" its so nice.

Thanks to everyone who posts advice on here! It is not being written in vain. Keep the tips coming!! They are always appreciated.
 

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Good to see you're getting success! :up:

I notice to that by changing a few little things can make a big difference. Like you said proper posture and eye contact is vital. You can look at some people and know instantly they are unconfident and uncomfortable talking to others.
 

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Where in the bible is the part about running patterns? I can't find that.
 

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So you define happiness by whether girls want you or not?
 

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mrRuckus said:
So you define happiness by whether girls want you or not?

oh come on. don't ballbust. you know that happiness is temporary at best, fullfillment is long term. Let the man be happy, why you hating?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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mrRuckus said:
So you define happiness by whether girls want you or not?

Umm...no but that's quite an interesting assumption on your part, I guess its all in how one interprets what's written.

What I said was now that I am getting more girls, I am HAPPIER. I think this is a statement that could apply to anyone. I don't imagine someone who wanted to get more girls and started to get them would get sad. I don't define happiness by whether girls want me or not, although them wanting me makes me MUCH happier.

I define happiness as being totally content with myself, being at peace with everyone around me and doing what brings me meaning to my life. In a nutshell.
 

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MikeEdward1973 said:
Where in the bible is the part about running patterns? I can't find that.
There are quite a few routines/patterns/methods in the dj bible....things like "how to get waitresses", etc. you'll have to search them out if you are really interested in learning them. Here's one example:
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/001677.html

You will notice that I also referenced the forums as well as the dj bible and if you want to find them there just use the search feature and type in patterns or routines. Here's one I found:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=149191&highlight=patterns

Theres also a website with a bunch of them here: http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/03_Approaching/11_The_Patterns/

I don't use these however. I read alot of them and I find its much easier for me to speak naturally than to try some of the stuff listed.
 
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