"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lostinlove

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I really need to learn more. I thought she was a good person i talked about in my other thread but now i see she wasnt.

i had my sister friend request the guy my gf is seeing or whatever and logged in to see his profile. he looks like a drug dealer in the pictures has pics on his bed with a lot of money and one with a gun and money.

if thats the kind of guy she wants to be with she can have him.

thanks for all your help and advice guys. im learning.

how can girls be so cruel and these are the types of garbage they choose us over? smdh
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rugby11

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Two books you could use to help you out.
One The rational Male by Rollo
Two Models by Mark manson
 

El Payaso

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You're a racist and a troll. Terrible combination.
 
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