"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonJuan11

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Guys you are missing the point. The point is hot vs. non hot. A hot girl can have any guy she wants and a non hot or fat one cannot which is why I'm thanking her. I can get a 3/10 no problem but why the heck would I thank her even if I did want to touch her?

Also, me and this girl are not an item. I wouldn't thank her if we were going out, that's stupid.

"Don't thank me, it makes me feel like a wh0re" - Well if I treated you with respect and admiration and spent money on you but you went to the 6'2 football player instead, then you are a wh0re and I should thank you for you letting me touch you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DonJuan11 said:
Guys you are missing the point. The point is hot vs. non hot. A hot girl can have any guy she wants and a non hot or fat one cannot which is why I'm thanking her. I can get a 3/10 no problem but why the heck would I thank her even if I did want to touch her?

Also, me and this girl are not an item. I wouldn't thank her if we were going out, that's stupid.

"Don't thank me, it makes me feel like a wh0re" - Well if I treated you with respect and admiration and spent money on you but you went to the 6'2 football player instead, then you are a wh0re and I should thank you for you letting me touch you.
*facepalm*
 
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