"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Texting too much? (17-23 age bracket)

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Don Juan
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wondering what ithers in this age bracket think of texting. Common advice is to use for logistics but i feel that is really outdated advice for my age. Snapchatting instead of texting even if it is only words is what every does.

Obviously we have to be careful not to kill vibes and text too much like any beta orbiting guys who set up "snapstreaks" or daily texting with girls who wont **** them, but building rapport and such like this may be important.
I have a few girls who live further from me so it is definitely easier before a date. Would Screening/qualifying in a natural way be appropriate? Of course we have to maintain the usual rules, not too much texting still but just enough.

Snapchat is great for guys anyway if you know how to use the story feature properly, a good tool.
 

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