"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Texting game is horrible, guidance on what to do next please!!

gravityeyelids

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2013
Messages
918
Reaction score
192
tomwesten27 said:
Hey guys! Went and picked her up at 930pm and ended up going out to 2 different local spots. We really hit it off. We had some really great conversations and I found we were on the same page with what we were looking for/wanted. I'm 27 yrs old and ended up finding out she is almost 35! She made a joke that I was young but I convinced her other wise.

She engaged in a lot of Kino and man was she looking hot. She was talking VERY close to my face, touching me a lot, when we went to the bar I was holding her hand etc. I played it very cool and smooth. I was getting SOOO many looks from other women and other men at the bar it was actually a cool feeling haha.

She had to work at 12:30pm so when I drove her home she asked me to drive her into the garage of her building and when I got to her car bam right into a make out session. Really good kissing for a solid 60 seconds! She said after we kissed "I had a lot of fun tonight, I will call you tomorrow"

I just said yeah tonight was fun, sounds good, have fun at work.

What do you guys think!? Did I do good?

As far as the next move

Obviously I should wait for her to call me today like she said correct? If she doesn't would I reach out at all today??
Solid work my man. Goes to show that you don't need to say the perfect PUA sh!t 100% of the time. Not saying you don't need improvement, but sometimes just going out and trying is bettter than sitting around worrying about the perfect thing to say

However...now you have to play it cool like fonzi. I'm serious. Just chiiiiill that b!tch out and lay back. Don't do sh!t. As a man, it's not your responsibility to reach out after a good date and say "heyyy that was super fun,i had a great time". You make her fvcking wonder whether a guy as cool as you could possibly be interested by not doing anything. Also, don't sit by the phone like a puppy dog waiting for the call. Might not come, don't get worked up about it.

In fact, if she doesn't call don't call her. Not the next day. Not the day after that. I have a feeling the call is a big test to see if you'll get worried and call her after she doesn't call. If you're going to call for a follow up date, wait like a WEEK. Yes, you read that right. You're a busy, high value guy. Do you sit around the phone waiting for a call and then call her 2 or 3 days later if she doesn't reach out to you? HELL NAW. While you are a man, and you do lead, you do so on your own time.

You got her hooked. Just play it cool like Fonzi, continue to spin other plates, stay busy and let her come to you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

jurry

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 18, 2014
Messages
1,038
Reaction score
60
Listen to mustfirstregister translation.

Shes 35 bro and a ****tail waitress.. Shes ready to get stuffed whenever u feel like it.

Just dont think so much about it and keep ur head straight, sounds like a fun girl. Enjoy.
 
Top