Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Texting a Good Idea?

waifu4laifu

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So I met this girl over the weekend at a friends birthday party. She seemed to interested in me by the end of the night and I got her number. the problem is we go to different schools and I really don't know her well. my question is if I should text or call. I would feel very uncomfortable calling but I feel as though texting would be an okay means to get to know her a little better. Thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tazammal

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So I met this girl over the weekend at a friends birthday party. She seemed to interested in me by the end of the night and I got her number. the problem is we go to different schools and I really don't know her well. my question is if I should text or call. I would feel very uncomfortable calling but I feel as though texting would be an okay means to get to know her a little better. Thoughts?:rockon:
 

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if I were you, I'd text, I vastly prefer texting to calling for a multitude of reasons, especially in a situation like this.

but if you're feeling bold and lucky, you can call her

just be prepared for her to not reply though (not saying she won't, just that it's a possibility).
 

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tazammal said:
So I met this girl over the weekend at a friends birthday party. She seemed to interested in me by the end of the night and I got her number. the problem is we go to different schools and I really don't know her well. my question is if I should text or call. I would feel very uncomfortable calling but I feel as though texting would be an okay means to get to know her a little better. Thoughts?:rockon:
Why the heck did you just copy what he wrote
 
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