Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Text message indifference

mikey2012

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You know shes indifferent/not interested..when

1) she doensnt text back for a long time
2) short texts
3) Doesnt answer your questions directly

Dont ask why she hasnt text back...she hasnt coz she dont give a fuk
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LMFAO

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Pretty much. The only answer to her indifference is your indifference, i.e. no contact, bang other girls and forget about her.
 

Meisterman

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If a girl isn't doing AT LEAST 60% of the chasing then she isn't worth your time. I think the sweet spot is around 80-20 personally. As soon as she has the upper hand, or shows declining interest, it's time to go complete ghost NC and never look back. It doesn't matter if she's initiated 20 dates in a row. If she flakes on you two times back to back then you kick her to the curb and move on. If she comes back you can decide where to go from there. If she doesn't, you saved yourself a lot of trouble and she was never worth your time anyway.
 

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Meisterman said:
If a girl isn't doing AT LEAST 60% of the chasing then she isn't worth your time. I think the sweet spot is around 80-20 personally. As soon as she has the upper hand, or shows declining interest, it's time to go complete ghost NC and never look back. It doesn't matter if she's initiated 20 dates in a row. If she flakes on you two times back to back then you kick her to the curb and move on. If she comes back you can decide where to go from there. If she doesn't, you saved yourself a lot of trouble and she was never worth your time anyway.
Excellent ...+1 rep Pretty much sums it up but you gotta keep reminding yourself especially when you get caught up with one ....there's always one kryptonite
 
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